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Past
tenses are sometimes used instead of present tenses when we want to sound less
direct, and therefore more polite. We use past tenses in this way when asking a
question or making a request.
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The
past simple is used instead of the present simple.
Did you
want to
add anything to the discussion?
(=’do you want to …?’)
Did you
have a
particular present in mind?
(=’do you have … in
mind?’)
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The
past continuous is used instead of the present continuous with verbs such as
hope, think and wonder.
Were you hoping to travel to Scotland
on this visit?
(=’are you hoping to
…?’)
What were you thinking of buying Jack for his
birthday?
(=’what are you thinking
of …?’)
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Sometimes
a sentence beginning with a past tense for distancing purposes contains a
second clause. If so, the verb in the second clause is usually in a present
tense, because we are asking someone about a present or future situation.
Were you hoping to travel to Scotland
while you’re
visiting the
UK?
NOT Were you hoping to travel to
Scotland while you were visiting the UK?
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Another
way to use distancing language is to introduce a question or request with the
verb wonder in the past continuous. The question or request can be direct or
indirect. Direct questions must follow a colon.
I was wondering: is there a picnic
area around here?
We were wondering if you want to travel
with us.
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In
an indirect question following was I were wondering, we can use the past simple
to add another layer of distancing.
We were wondering if you wanted to travel with us.
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We
can use wonder in the past simple too, but the verb in the indirect question is
usually in the past simple.
We wondered if you wanted to travel with us.